Truly terrifying is the one who places them selves in the terror of the Almighty for He is beyond human logic and can not be tried by man; therefore, a true friend must never judge why another is in pain. Man must forgive for only the Lord can judge and gives hidden aid. Faith in the Lord must never be about what benefits arise but only seeking to please the Holy One for no man is completely sinless. Only by the blood of Jesus can a man be sinless. Hebrews 4:15-16 says, “For we do not have a high priest who cannot sympathize with our weaknesses, but One who has been tempted in all things as we are, yet  without sin. Therefore let us draw near with confidence to the throne of grace, so that we may receive mercy and find grace to help in time of need.” (NASU) Ultimately, the Lord is sovereign and blesses the sinners an tries His Children. Sorrows are not always caused by sinfulness.

There is and end to speaking to the wind with the idol that people construct in their minds as God fail to the world around for the Holy One brings sorrow then a pure prayer is the only response. A true friend must fortify with words one who is in pain not condemn for all are under the judgment of the ungodly. Jealousy is self condemning for only the Lord can judge the heart. Wisdom is found not simple responses but in pain and silence for after darkness, light for all may learn from each other. Desire condemn those who indulge in it for some says desire itself is the cause of suffering. True healing can never come through words, but must come from the final redemption of Jesus of Jesus Christ because He died and resurrected Himself to life for even if life is lost there is Shalom in Heaven were one will see God. Job 19:25-26 says, “As for me, I know that my Redeemer lives, And at the last He will take His stand on the earth. Even after my skin is destroyed, Yet from my flesh I shall see God;” (NASU) The reason why one is blessed is to bring shalom to those who are afflicted with pain or need as it is said, “Blessed to bless” for in the Day of Judgment faith is one's wealth.